Swyky, exceeding the limits of Fisting

A hard practice for those who want to try more thorough-than-usual anal penetration experience, fisting has got popular to the point of clubs organizing theme nights. Managing to insert a hand in or two for those most advanced is feasible if you are willing to be fisted and find a patient fister. To succeed in getting or giving pleasure, some go further into the practice. We’re chatting with Swyky, a philosopher and anthropologist, whose sexuality is a passion, and who after a lot of training and learning manages to take in an arm up to the elbow. A practice that deserves a few explanations.

 

 

Stéphan. Fisting is trendy and many are those who have tried it and even enjoy fisting. Many stop after the introduction of their partner’s hand and don’t go beyond.  On your side, you have worked on the practice much more.

 

Swyky. We are far from impassable depth after inserting a hand or a wrist. You can insert the whole forearm up, even go past the elbow. Two of my partners actually went largely past it. That requires as much know-how from the fisted guy than the fister, and above all a lot of work and training. The ascending colon is not straight. You should capture circumvolutions while staying in the axis. And you need to know how to pass several sphincters which you need to tame and get to open up. The imposed limit often comes from the fisted guy, because without self-control, panic prevents the novice’s phincter to relax. Then, it is a sport. You do not become an athlete without educating your muscles nor train them. For my part, to evolve from fisting with a simple hand to the elbow, it took me a year at a rate of two or three nights a week.

S. If the fisted guy does not unblock sphincters, can this really block the fister even if he insists?
 

Swyky. Yes. And I would even say that the more, you insist, the more there is a blockage. When you fist, you don’t address the cortex, but the primitive brain;  the one animals had at very prehistoric time where we were only worms. Indeed there are more than 200 million neurons in the intestine that cover it and whose function is to detect what we keep or reject in our food. Although the superior brain, which we have under the skull has its word to say, it is not the only one to decide. In other words, there is a person in your bowels, and although its functions are not as sophisticated as the superior brain, it has autonomy. It hates being assaulted. And the slightest attack, or if the cortex sends a message of stress or anxiety, it contracts automatically. Hence the expression "to have a ball the belly". In fact, it is an organic reality.

 

S. If the fister is awkward, the fisted a little anxious, or if the colon is simply irritated, will it not do?

 

Swyky. No, it will not pass. In the ascending colon, there are actually 5 or 6 "segments"... I have never counted the exact amount because I don’t think about it when I fist. I only go and meet them to "dialogue" with them with fingers. Each "section" is closed by a sphincter at each end. They are located beyond what we call "the rectal bulb". The rectal bulb is the final part of the colon. This is where you insert your hand when you only fist to the wrist. Its primary purpose is to mould excrements and dry them before evacuation. Beyond, starts a series of more or less twisted circumvolutions. When you arrive at an area unexplored before, sensations are increased tenfold ; the primitive brain sending messages informing central cortex of a new phenomenon. If the central cortex does not send any reassuring message it on the lack of danger, it is going to close. Whereas if it is encouraged to let go, the passage is possible. These "brains" do not speak to  one another, these are chemical messages not at all conscious. As long as the fisted guy is slightly anxious, it will not go through. If he feels confident, if he has trained and desires strongly that it should go further, it can go through with skill, relaxation, and progressive alignment of the segments.

 

S. What should the fister when do feeling a sphincter contracting?

 

Swyky. As soon as he feels the contraction, the fister must move back and looking to seduce the sphincter. It involves caresses and an infinite tenderness by barely touching it to signify that it will be a pleasant sensation. When it is "convinced," if I may say, it opens up by itself, but not before. And then, it is possible to move to the next with the same softness.

 

S. Beyond the experience, even the performance, what pleasure do you draw from being fisted?

 

Swyky. You feel more than a hand. You feel as if you were invaded, or possessed. It is quite indescribable because there is no equivalent. I do not know anything better. A feeling of abolition between you and the other, a fusion, and multiple sensation, often sweet, sensual and breathtaking sensations. Well, if it is well done, of course. According to the flexibility of gesture, it can be voluptuous, and magical, as much as it can be disappointing even painful when the gestures are hesitant and not fluid. The interpenetration of the bodies is such as the fister as much as the for fisted, you do not really know where one finishes and the other begins. And then, that also depends on the symbol that the hand represents for you. A dick is a phallic symbol by definition. The hand for me is a symbol of power. So, obviously an arm is even stronger.

 

S. Going up until beyond elbow, that represents a good part of the length of the chest. That is not very reassuring with all the organs beside and there is necessarily the anxiety of an accident.

 

Swyky. The ascending goes up to the pleura which is located a little above the ribs. By pressing slightly on the belly you feel the progress of the hand. You can feel when the fingers arrive under the ribs. Just before the end the ascending which ends in a cul de sac, you will find the junction of the transversal. At that point, you fold the fingers and you begin to penetrate the transversal by folding the fingers phalanx after phalanx, then in the best of cases, up to the wrist. The progress must be infinitely slow. When the elbow is passed, just as for the wrist, the arm is aspired, because at the level of the anal sphincter beyond the elbow is narrower than the elbow level itself. You should make sure this aspiration is not too fast so fister retains its arm while letting it progress slowly. Then you continue the progress of the hand in the transversal so that you can enter the entire fore arm plus the equivalent of the length of the hand beyond the elbow. The hand is inside in a position perpendicular to the fore arm’s end. That represents about 2/3 of your superior arm. Therefore, at a maximum you find yourself with the entire arm until 10 cm of the shoulder of an average arm.

 

S. Is going beyond that, technically possible?

 

Swyky. I don’t think so and have never seen it, neither in reality, nor in a video. To do so,  the ascending  would have to be detached from its highest point of fixing. It is obvious that the damage would lead to something for which I can hardly imagine the seriousness. Pain is a symptom on which you must remain absolutely attentive. If things don’t go well, the fisted must say it. It is imperative. This is why I am not strong adept of the use of anaesthetics. What’s more, the more you go up into the colon, the less there are pain sensors. It is therefore in your interest to remain receptive to these signals.

 

S. Some prefer not to try by fear of the physical consequences and especially the possible incontinence which could be caused by an anus too slack.

 

Swyky. The problems of continence are an urban legend, provided obviously that you do not put yourself at risk with a muscle strain, as with any sport. You have to take time necessary to heat the muscles. Sport in competition is really the good metaphor. You get nothing without work, discipline and efforts. But you should never do anything that puts your body in a situation that it cannot bear. You have to be patient, methodical, and do muscle heating exercises before practising. Deep fisting with the elbow or beyond is like an Olympic sport. Same rigour, even discipline, same caution and respect of the body. Without heating and a long training, it is a dangerous adventure. On the other hand, practised with the same discipline as for a high level sport, there is no danger. You just need to be initiated by the good trainer. To go from the hand to the elbow, I had 2 main partners. One who knew how to do it, the second whom I trained myself. To go past the elbow, I had to have a new partner who could manage the passing of the elbow and the turn of the hand inside it implies. That said, not everybody is equal. There are some who have more capability for a sport or another, and all the trainers of "fillies" like me are not equal either (laughs)

 

S. Indeed, in fisting practices by beginners, some attempts may seem to be violent with a simple ambition to play brutally with the anus of fisted guy.


Swyky. Fisting practised in a brutal way, on an inexperienced person is dangerous. It is, in my opinion, to ban absolutely. Even masochist, it is his life that is put at risk. You do not want to leave your colon in the hands of the first brute. And if it hurts, you must stop immediately. A fister who does not stop at the pain signals of his partner is a crazy dangerous guy. There are some guys who practice fisting in a boxer fashion, but they are very few and it demands a real knowledge of one another.

 

S. What are the qualities required to be a good fister ?
 

Swyky. Fisting has become a very common practice and as a whole the level is very diverse from the worst to the best. The worst are often convinced to do well. The best are the most attentive to the other and vary approaches according to their partner. To have sensitivity and listen, as well as curiosity are three skills necessary to be a good fister. But to know how to teach it is a fourth.

I have known excellent fisters practicing in a very intuitive and good way, but who could not explain by words the techniques of their art. Deep fisting is practice that can be explored when two common spirits meet, the fister and fisted. It is possible for a fisted to let himself "invaded" by an arm only under three initial conditions: the desire, the pleasure and the confidence in his partner. The fister can progress thouroughly only if he has sensitivity, listens subtly to the body of the other, has fluid gesture, and the imperative respect of the signals given by the depths of his partners as much as by his word. It is from there that appears the feeling of harmony and incomparable communion that you experience then. And if you don’t go far, it is not a problem, as long as you got high, or in depth with a hand if you like !

 

S. For those who are tempted by the experience, how can they do?

 

Swyky. If you want to start and then progress, you have to find the right people. As for me, my Master took me to the nirvana of this practice and it is a great reward when he brings me to heaven that way. Certainely, there is a strong desire of performance in me, but it really give extraordinary sensations. For deep fisting, you need a good osmosis between the fister and fisted, a great respect of the body and its limits, and above all, not obsessed by the performance at all costs. There are some days when you are less good than other days. You need to accept it. If you want to go further in the depths, you need patience, regularity, learning of your own body and the body of the other. All the asses are different, all hands too. And, performance is not obtained if you don’t give priority to pleasure and desire when practising. Without desire nor pleasure, exceeding oneself will never be possible. That is what is important! Nothing else. Also, if fisting with the wrist satisfies you, it is not necessary to want to go further.


S. Thanks Swyky for this chat on a practice that is still not well known and which you really need to discover with confidence and experienced people to enjoy the pleasure of it.

 

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